My Dad turns 75 this weekend

My Dad turns 75 this weekend. I can’t believe it. He is battling stage 4 glioblastoma. Last summer for his 74th, my brother threw him a party. He had siblings from Arizona, South Carolina, Ohio, all come together to celebrate the life he’d lived. It was a tough day. He told my brother he’d never had a party before. That made me sad. He deserved more than one. But there we were, celebrating him, knowing his clock was running out. At the end of March 2019, we were told the diagnosis. 12-15 months. Since then, I’ve been well aware of time. My Dad turns 75 this weekend. I told my son we were going to Ohio to see him and Nana. “Will Papa be able to talk this time?” He’s 5. He’ll grow up not remembering his Papa the way he was. I’ll spend my time trying to remind him. Papa liked playing superheroes with you. He wasn’t much of a sports fan, but he played ball with you. He really loved that you loved trains as much as he did. I always thought that you might be his “favorite” gran...